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Friday, May 24, 2013

Graduation 畢業篇



記得小時候,我特別喜歡這句老師教的諺語,那就是,一寸光陰一寸金,寸金難買寸光陰。這是代表了時間流逝地非常快,我們要珍惜時間呀!一贊眼就四年了,這個月是最後一個月讓我和我朋友們在大學快快樂樂相聚的時光了。之後全部都要各奔西東咯。

Before this, there are many question marks in my head. This is because there are too many choices for me to choose for my future. I do made up a decision that continue for Phd previously but it seems to be a tough journey and i am actually realizing that i am not having that much of passion anymore in studying. I am now more keen to moeny, money and MONEY! This is the one of the society sickness that making everybody is so looking up on the money. 5 years are just too long for me i guess because i am too ambitious and my family is needing me so i have to come out and work. 

Previously, dilemma really killing me either pursuing study or working and now even the dilemma is killing me again by making a decision whether to stay in Malaysia or going to Singapore. Somehow, i am very gracious and thank God that i have quite a number of choices to make. Some local companies are offering a great salary to me. There are also few companies from Singapore which are not too bad as well in term of the salary. Anyway, i am actually making a decision to go to a company in Singapore and signing up for a 2.5 years contract there this coming tuesday but all in sudden my mind is starting to have some discussion whether staying in Malaysia will be a better choice in order to success faster? Haiz, it is hard to make a firm decision again!

Subsequently, if i am going to Singapore meaning that i can only coming back to meet my mom and my family members once in a long while. I do hope i can earn as much as possible so that i can let my mom and my dad enjoy their life when they reach 60 meaning that i am still having 10 more years to work on it so that they can put down all the burdens the have in us and enjoy their lives. My parents have worked so hard for us 4 siblings in order to get us what the other children is having during their childhood and teen age. Since we are from a poor family when we was young but somehow they manged to get us some toys no matter it is new or 2nd hand. By the way, i am only managed to remember that i am only having a brand remote racing car when i was young. Somehow, i cherished for what i am having. Last year, my mom and dad managed to board on a plane and going to Sabah for their very first time vacation. I do hope i can sponsor them a luxurious vacation each year later when i am coming out to work later on. Therefore, if someone who are so bad luck to become my girl friend, please do not blame me for not buying LV, Gucci, Prada those.If you think you deserve for all these i think u better find another man who are managed to do so. Not to say i don willing to spend just that i think spending wisely is very important in planning for future. This is also another harsh part in my life as i am having quite a high requirement in acquiring a girl friend. For example, look decent, medium size, around 160-168cm height, if possible having a double eyes lid and prominent nose face features. haha, i think i surely still sleeping and keeping myself in my dreamland that's why i still being single since i was born.

Somehow, university life is ending soon and i surely missing it very much with a bunch of silly coursemates by keep calling me handsome james or bomber king 大炮王。The day of doing gym, plying basketball, swimming together all will be ended soon. Wish you guys to be having a great future and not forgetting me! If anyone of you read my blog please remember to keep in touch with me after the graduation and invite me for the wedding dinner yea! This is my promise, no matter how far and where is you wedding is located i will be there!

 

6 comments:

Sher-Li said...

第一次看你的部落格~ (其实我真的很想要哭,因为刚才打了好长的一篇留言,结果系统出问题,全部不见了 T.T )

毕业了,要踏上你的人生第四分之二的旅程了。
这将会影响你接下来的人生。

想说,出来工作以后,陪家人的机会少了是难免的。重要的是看自己如何抽出时间来给他们咯~

离乡背井工作是有些难熬喇~ 只是看自己如何去定义这个所谓的”难熬“。
对我而言,苦的也就只是这一阵子,并不会是一辈子的。要知道,熬过了就是春天了。

来新加坡工作其实并不糟,我也是在马来西亚打拼了四年,才出来工作的。
以前我总觉得,新加坡很可怕,但是我一来到这里,就觉得并没有想象的那么糟,反而意想不到的事情就变多了。

没有人能决定你的人生,工作也一样。旁人能给的,就只是意见,并不是根据你的想法而左右你的人生。好与坏,看自己怎么去衡量。凡事都有起点,起点好的话,接下来的路就不那么困难了。

总觉得,趁年轻,就应该好好的享受!
享受并不是那些不工作,到处玩,而是享受工作给你的刺激,经验,难题!
这些将会是在你人生中划下最美好,最青春的一部分。
然而,那也将会是你我都回不去的岁月。

——路过完毕——

SeCReT_JaMeS said...

我也是那样认为,所以我多数会去新加坡,给自己机会认识多一点东西。谢谢你。哈哈。你现在也在新加坡做工?

SeCReT_JaMeS said...

我也是那样认为,所以我多数会去新加坡,给自己机会认识多一点东西。谢谢你。哈哈。你现在也在新加坡做工?

Sher-Li said...

嗯!来这里工作快要两年了~
时间飞逝啊!(泪奔!)

这两年学到的不少,从不敢说英语,到这里每天都必须说英语。
一开始,压力到几乎每个月都会狂哭一次。
现在?眼泪?依然会流下来,只是在很压力却无法释放的时候喇!呵呵!

这里的机会很多,也可以认识不少新鲜的东西。
要好好把握哦!=)

Unknown said...

Yo, James AKA Hao Lian. ^^
What's with all the emotional thoughts, be a man. LOL!! Your future is yours. Decide what is the thing you really desire. Everywhere is not an issue as long as you are still you. ;)

Unknown said...

我喜欢你在脸书写的那句

以为外面是天堂,诸不知,你离开的,就是天堂